FEAR OF GETTING MARRIED, NOT GAMOFOBIA

The fear of getting married is a sentiment shared by many people , both men and women, it is an unconscious fear that has nothing to do with the love we feel towards those around us , it is a personal thing that we must first admit to themselves and then, slowly , to resolve.Marriage is a choice that needs to be done with care and , above all, without any pressure , one has the feeling that you want to marry , no need to convince or pressure the partner to be told to you in the long run all the concerns come out, is guaranteed. But what arises from the fear of getting married ? How do you explain the psychology of this phobia ?On a psychological level the fear of marriage can have various causes , such as whether the parents are very fond of you might subconsciously be afraid of not being able to have that degree of affinity or perhaps suffer all the compromises that we saw every day. If the parents are in dispute or have separated, even in this case you may have repercussions in later life, lack of confidence, desire for freedom and so on. Finally there is one last option , a purely Italian , and that is the fear of leaving your family and cut the umbilical cord .Whatever the causes is important to address the problem in the right way , showing love , trust and understanding you will get much better results than with recrimination and pressure. And remember that it is better not to marry than that THAT SEPARATE AFTER A FEW DAYS.To be honest I see a fear in us men more towards the legal system , which in reality ' of the sacrament of matrimonio.Personalmente I've seen all colors, as an example of one of my neighbors idyllic marriage , kids , after two years , even , the wife has lost her head for the ski instructor , have separated the house of the husband went to his wife perchèl'affidamento had been done to her (as in 99 % of cases) as the children said to her, in more ' type, shut up my mouth , she is always by night and day , not to mention the foods you must pay the unfortunate poor husband ... as they say " HORNED aND MAZZIATO ."This is just one of many cases , I took it as an example because I lived in, say, personally, but I would like to close this article with a question of these laws , this Legislature , a ragazzoche has minimal work still has the courage to start a family without hesitation strong inside ? ?Love can make even the master ? ? There is still two hearts and a hut or is it just UTOPIA

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See you soon guys and reflect on these questions, I wish I were talking together even in the next post ..........